Women: 5 Dangerous Signs You’re About To Cheat In Your Marriage

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Many of us aren't born attempting to cheat on our spouses. Most of us walk down the aisle (most folks anyway) with visions of monogamy and love dancing inside our heads, sure that union – our union – could be the one to beat the odds. Sadly, not many of us will meet those hopes and ideals. If 50 percent of marriages result in divorce and 50 percent of spouses are victims of infidelity, then you can find a lot of cheating spouses out there. But who are they? What're the signs that the person is set or about to cheat? What're the signs that you will be cheating soon? We asked various women who cheated on the spouses to reveal  what drove them to it and culled their answers into a listing of five signs you're going to cheat on your man.
Continue to see the list after the break.
 1. Your se*x life has dwindled: A lot of the women said that between the stress of raising children and the stress of working, they were having sex less and less. Eventually, some guy caught their eye and boom! They were the cliched housewife sleeping with their personal trainers. Oops!.
 
 2. He was your only one: “I was 24 when I got married to my husband just out of college,” says one anonymous source. “I never slept with anyone but him.” This led to her being curious, and curiosity… well, it sometimes kills cats and other times it leads to affairs. She and her husband made it through, but a better way to handle those feelings would have been to be open in the first place. “Once we talked about it, I knew he felt the same way, too. He may have even let me have a free pass if I’d asked. Instead, I almost caused a divorce.” 
 
3. You crave compliments: Sometimes when you’ve been together for a long time, the compliments just kind of stop coming. For many women, that leads to seeking compliments — and other things — elsewhere. Is that his fault? No. But really, compliments are good. Keep them up. 
 
4. You want revenge: One woman cheated because her husband cheated. Another because her husband was a gambler who left them in financial ruin. “I was so pissed, it made sense at the time,” said the gambler’s wife. They eventually divorced. 
 
5. You are feeling neglected: We’ve ALL been there, right? Our husbands are busy and driving us crazy. We are busy and focused on the kids, and all of a sudden, we start to feel like it’s been years since they’ve said what a good job we’re doing or how much they love us. Been there. This is the reason a lot of women end up in bed with another man. Stop it before it gets there! Talk to him. Tell him what you need.